Forgiveness Processing. A Gift You Give Yourself

 The past won't change; so grieve for what will never be. What you can't/ don't Forgive; You Become! This will give you freedom from the past/abusive person that hurt you. You will never get what you are owed. The worst thing you can do is not forgive. Forgiveness is releasing a person from a debt that they owe you this  works of grace in your heart. Forgiveness only takes one; you.                            Forgiveness is the key to your future happiness.
Forgiveness is a release from the burden of anger and pain. When you choose to forgive, you choose to live in the present and the future instead of the past.  It does not mean to forget but it does mean to Release the negative thoughts and emotions attached to a bad memory and go on with your life.  Forgiveness doesn't just happen, you must choose to forgive.

You may have been hurt by something that your partner did to you or hurt because your expectations weren't met. You may have been hurt and you don't even remember why. You may have done something to someone else that you are sorry for and you remember the pain and carry it with you like a heavyweight.  When your burden becomes too great, it becomes a relationship, it consumes your life, it changes who you are and what your relationships could be.  It is a wall between you and the intimacy that you seek with the universe.

When you forgive:
You relieve yourself of the burden of the past. You shed the hurt, pain, anger, and loneliness. You drop the weight and you can begin to heal.
You give the person you forgive and yourself the freedom to live in peace and to be able to change for the better.                                        Repentance- must show a change in direction; confess the truth, prove trustworthiness. Confess fears, seek grace (unmerited favor) and let go. Talk about your loss, hurt, and feelings.  If you do not forgive you are only condemning yourself to the slavery of guilt (a weight on your soul). Let go of the old life, hurt, and anger. Find where is it coming from? Don't let angry people control you. Without forgiveness you will have no boundaries. You will live in a safe prison with nothing. No one else needs to change only you. No one can make you feel guilty. If you are unhappy; you have the problem. What forgiveness is and is not:

1. Forgiveness is not forgetting.
One can forgive and still grieve a loss but, remove the feeling of pain. 
2. Forgiveness does not deny responsibility for behavior. You have simply committed to not holding the other person to the debt they owe.
Ways to forgive and exercise forgiveness:
1. Write down with pen and paper all of the things that you have done wrong. It is imperative that you write. Word processing does not process the emotional thoughts in the brain.
2. Next,Read the list you wrote, out loud.
3. Now say "I did the best that I could with the limited knowledge that I had at the time. I now forgive myself and free up my thoughts from that loop."
4. Destroy by cutting each wrong on the paper individually (burn or shred) each.
5. Repeat this exercise for each person that has ever hurt you. Good luck, you have now rescued yourself from being unforgiving!

Wal-mart.com Review of Sleep Products that Work

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How to make your Millionaire Fortunes, New Opportunities Free

 If you want to make some quick money - pick one of the top 10 free Amazon.com kindle books under Business; read the (popular notes) follow them and you will be rewarded with $$ for value. Create what people want to buy. 

Warren Buffett's Business Psychological Issues

 Buffett - 1. Disowned his grand - daughter because his son married, divorced by her mother an emotionally damaged woman. 2. Owns only monopolies that takes super tax loopholes. 3. Doesn't sell stock to allow capital to flow. Flow creates jobs not Mystical Job Creators. 4. Champions the poor so less than $30,000 / year workers won't be jealous of him like rich Liberal politicians. 5. Knows he doesn't deserve  respect. He has only allocated capital and created nothing in his life. 6. He is  Largest holder of Mobile Homes in the US. Sub - Standard Housing."  

Are You on your way to be a Millionaire - Will you get there before me? Q and A

  Yes. going to give away a lot before a billion. this depends on if you help more people before me, and ROI. You have to find more people, communicate more and fill their needs faster. My newest technique. new business books on amazon.com FREE every 2 hrs to 2 days! trying to skim in implement 1 a day!! you have at least 90% to much stuff! you can give me your closet stuff. Today is someday. Appl APPLE up 29% this year! going to $1000. I sent you a referral to optionshouse.com there is a FREE kindle book on options. if you understand it you can teach me. Watch my playlist on www.youtube.com/user/b29349 clean. Get everything you haven't seen in a month - GONE. You won't use it or miss it, because you already haven't. My videos free up your neurons so you will become smarter = more brain power! We didn't a Billionaire childhood to "train" in, some day is NOW. " You can always top yourself every time." This is not something I can do for you, but I'm giving you the best tools I have.
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"Look Out" Shoplifter Walmart South Carolina ReTRIAL

My question involves criminal law for State of  South Carolina Walmart Shoplifting

Retrain Asset Protection and Correct. FALSE SHOPLIFTING, Everyday. young girl, did not attempt to be a "look out " for the other 3 female shop lifters at Wal-mart. This is what she did through my Thursday night Dream Casting - 1. She did what any innocent,shocked, startled person would do; Panicked. The same pattern erratic movements is what a mouse does in a maze when it doesn't know what to do. 2. She fled the group, but kept looking and returning to the group. B) She was Not being a "look out" for many reasons. 1.We the jury could not see her face or view her body language, but 2. Any basic threatening combat ( potentially threatening ) situation a "look out" would not kept a large bag on their shoulder restricting movement and speed. 3. Also, it would have been used to load more stolen items. 4. Several minutes had passed during the commission of this crime. C) under the hand of one hand of all - the officer would have had to 1. prove conspiracy - that the "Lookout" was reasonably going to benefit from the theft - materially or momentarily which did NOT display in the law or even attempt to do verbally, Showing Police malicious, misconduct by misrepresenting the law that we the jury were never allowed to see. 2. Under the instruction of the law the officer implied, He would have to had arrested the other passersby that stopped within a few feet of the 3 female robbers as well, in clear-view of the stuffing of bras. 3. We were instructed to apply the law, but not provided a copy of it. There are 50 different shoplifting laws in each state.D) A time stamp was not on the 3 video recordings. 1. Several minutes passed during the commission of the crime by the other 3 women. 2. It is not reasonable to assume a shocked young girl is going to a) even attempt to prevent her peer group instantly, from stealing. b) flee the store, Wal - mart, when she was driven their by them -thieves of no. E) the officer, "sees these all the time"; every person he arrests is automatically - guilty. We the jury had you do nothing more than, cause you to punish an person that was protecting themselves in best they could in a threatening situation. The Wrongfully Convicted - DID NOT MAKE ANY ATTEMPT TO FACILITATE THIS CRIME.
Ways to improve chances of a fair trail - 1. Have the suspect stand closer to the jury than the officer. 2. A) Provide Internet access and B) a paper copy of all laws in the jury room under consideration. 3. A timer.
This was a brave young woman and I along with the system felled to protect her. The arresting officer needs to be retrained.
Ineffective Assistance of Counsel - The accused, nor the jury had counsel.

attorney’s behavior might appear inadequate, at best.

Police and/or Process Misconduct - The Officer misrepresented the 2 laws, applied - shoplifting, "look out", hand of one is the hand of all.
police officer has lied or exaggerated his testimony during a criminal trial WHAT CAN BE DONE TO CORRECT THE CONVICTION? RETRIAL? APPEAL? EXPUNGE? RETRAIN POLICE? FINE WALMART - ASSET PROTECTION? CHANGE LAWS? COSTS?   

Letter to Walmart.com Corporation Wrongful Shoplifting Jury Wrongful Conviction

Retrain Asset Protection and Correct. FALSE SHOPLIFTING, Every day. Judge McJimpsey, young girl Monday 13 Feb did not attempt to be a "lookout "  for the other 3 female shoplifters at WalMart. This is what she did through my Thursday night Dream Casting - 1. She did what any innocent, shocked, startled person would do; Panicked. The same pattern erratic movements is what a mouse does in a maze when it doesn't know what to do. 2. She fled the group but kept looking and returning to the group.  B) She was Not being a "look out" for many reasons.  1. We the jury could not see her face or view her body language, but 2. Any basic threatening combat ( potentially threatening ) situation a "lookout" would not keep a large bag on their shoulder restricting movement and speed.  3. Also, it would have been used to load more stolen items. 4. Several minutes had passed during the commission of this crime. C) under the hand of one hand of all - the officer would have had to 1. prove conspiracy - that the "Lookout" was reasonably going to benefit from the theft - materially or momentarily which did NOT display in the law or even attempt to do verbally, Showing Police malicious, misconduct by misrepresenting the law that we the jury were never allowed to see. 2. Under the instruction of the law, the officer implied, He would have to have arrested the other passersby that stopped within a few feet of the 3 female robbers as well, in clear view of the stuffing of bras.  3. We were instructed to apply the law, but not provided a copy of it. There are 50 different shoplifting laws in each state.D) A time stamp was not on the 3 video recordings. 1. Several minutes passed during the commission of the crime by the other 3 women. 2. It is not reasonable to assume a shocked young girl is going to a) even attempt to prevent her peer group instantly, from stealing. b) flee the store, Walmart, when she was driven there by them -thieves of no.  E) the officer, "sees these all the time"; every person he arrests is automatically - guilty.    We the jury had you do nothing more than, cause you to punish a person that was protecting themselves in best they could in a threatening situation.  The Wrongfully Convicted - DID NOT MAKE ANY ATTEMPT TO FACILITATE THIS CRIME.
Ways to improve chances of a fair trial - 1. Have the suspect stand closer to the jury that the officer. 2. A) Provide Internet access and B) a paper copy of all laws in the jury room under consideration.  3. A timer.
This was a brave young woman and me along with the system felled to protect her. The arresting officer needs to be retrained.
Ineffective Assistance of Counsel  -    The accused nor us the jury had no counsel.

attorney’s behavior might appear inadequate, at best.

Police and/or Process Misconduct  - The Officer misrepresented the 2 laws,  we the jury were to apply.
 the police officer has lied or exaggerated his testimony during a criminal trial.  www.garnerrape.blogspot.com www.victimarrested.blogspot.com www.sexmisconduct.blogspot.com